Leadership Competencies - Basic

Interpersonal Skills

Definition:

Considers and responds appropriately to the needs, feelings, and capabilities of different people in different situations.

Key Behaviors

  • Listens attentively to peoples’ ideas and concerns
  • Responds to others’ verbalized concerns and feelings
  • Asks questions to clarify others’ concerns and feelings
  • Plans and prepares by anticipating others’ reactions
  • Uses non-verbal cues and body language to identify and interpret others’ concerns and feelings
  • Responds to others’ unspoken concerns and feelings
  • Acknowledges others’ concerns and feelings, in spite of disagreement
  • Approaches others about sensitive issues in non-threatening ways

Proficiency Levels

  • Expert: Models, leads, trains, and motivates multiple levels of personnel to be excellent in interpersonal awareness.
  • Advanced: Habitually uses non-verbal cues and body language to interpret others’ feelings and respond to their unspoken concerns, acknowledges others’ concerns in spite of disagreement, and approaches others about sensitive issues in non-threatening ways.
  • Intermediate: Usually uses non-verbal cues and body language to interpret others’ feelings and respond to their unspoken concerns, acknowledges others’ concerns in spite of disagreement, and approaches others about sensitive issues in non-threatening ways.
  • Basic: Sometimes listens attentively and responds to peoples’ concerns and feelings, asks questions to clarify them, and plans and prepares by anticipating others’ reactions.
  • Awareness: Demonstrates common knowledge or understanding of interpersonal awareness, but may avoid or miss opportunities to elicit, notice, interpret, and anticipate others’ concerns and feelings.